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Friendship stamp by JinZhan Friendship stamp by JinZhan
Well I just cant get the word "would you like to be my friend~? 8D" I mean~~ why ask~? if the person really treats you as his/her friend~ then you're his/her friend~ do you really have to ask to make sure that he/she see's you as a friend~? well...if they dont see you as one~ then maybe its because you both just cant get along that well~ it takes time to know someone~ not just by asking it |3
This stamp was inspired by Lucky Star XD I read the manga~ Minami has a part saying similar with this XD (it was in chinese though |D)

Edit 2009/1/21
ok~ok~XD I hear you all! I apologize with my fail grammar XD it is now changed, thank you all for the faves~! ^_^

Edit 2010/8/31
:iconover9000plz::iconsaysplz: Its over 9000
LOL~ no~ rly...didn't really thought this would reach this far @@ thank u all for the comments~
If u dont agree with the stamp I respect that~ and if u think the gramer is wrong~ well....sorry~ ^^|| though some people think it works~ so I think I'll just let it stay that way.
Thank you all again for the faves and comments. *sry if I didnt reply but I do read them all*
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truereset Featured By Owner Feb 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
While asking for friends is a bad idea it's not necessarily a subconscious decision to make friends.

If you go through life expecting yourself to just fall into friendships then you'll probably end up anti social and unhappy.

Initiative should be taken at times and sometimes that could be making attempts to talk to someone or sending them messages ands striking up a conversation.

This can be done with the conscious intent to make friends and can work
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Distractio Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2016  Student General Artist
YES YES YES. :heart:
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QueerKinq Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2016
it makes me so uncomfortable when people ask to be my friend
Just talk to me and get to know me lol
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:iconthe-cat-of-black:
The-Cat-Of-Black Featured By Owner Jan 6, 2016  Student Artist
I call bull on this because I met my closes friend in the whole world by asking.
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oO-CrazyShadowCat-Oo Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Where was this stamp when I needed it last year?
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E--NDER Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Y e s.
I met my friend by ...
doing roleplay ...
with my "failed hetalia oc"
like
she thought she was a bOY HAHA
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DarkraiHero06 Featured By Owner Nov 7, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah. I kinda tried this. I was stupid.
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Randamu-Chan Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
:)
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:iconwhiteredwolf:
whiteredwolf Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2015  Student Artist
Using it thank you :D
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:iconfrappecat:
Frappecat Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2015  Hobbyist
I dislike it too it honestly annoys me-.-
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GekidoMamoru Featured By Owner Aug 8, 2015  Student General Artist
This is true xD

I met my BFF'S by sitting down beside them and started to talk random stuff and we never separated after that xD
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Artsypickle Featured By Owner Aug 1, 2015  Hobbyist
I met one of my best friends just by talking about our favorite show called the walking dead we never asked to be friends and I honestly find it annoying whenever people ask to be my friend so Everytime I'm asked that I always find myself saying this..
"if you want to be my friend don't ask to in the first place friendships don't form by your desires and or choosing so you don't have to be lonely they just form automatically and I guess they form over time as well "
yeah I really don't appreciate people asking to be my friend...but it makes me happy that they want to N all but i'm sorry that's not how I roll heh
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cookiecrumbfnaf Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2015  Hobbyist
I met one of my best friends because I was playing five nights at Freddy's XD
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MrLuckyCreeper Featured By Owner Jan 8, 2016  Student General Artist
what a coincidence, me too XD
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:iconcookiecrumbfnaf:
cookiecrumbfnaf Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2016  Hobbyist
Fnaf- creating friendship since 2014 XD
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MrLuckyCreeper Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2016  Student General Artist
yepsies XD
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cookiecrumbfnaf Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2016  Hobbyist
XD
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iBuNdLeS Featured By Owner Jul 6, 2015
Thank you for making this stamp ;;
I just get SO many people that are like, "Do you wanna be BFFs??" and I've never even talked to them before, like what gives?
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DeathRoe Featured By Owner Jun 24, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
So true I became friends with my bff by asking if she liked the hunger games and from that day on we sat with each other all the time and became bffs we've been friends for a year now and only bickered once :3
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mysticalazarathian Featured By Owner Jun 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I dislike it when people ask me to be their friend. It's like they're immediately assuming we have things in common and we'll never fight. @_@
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Nuclearzeon2 Featured By Owner Jun 11, 2015
To quote Hobbes:

:iconhobbesplz::iconsaysplz:People are friends because they WANT to be, not because they HAVE to be. If your friends are contractual, then you don't have any.
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Sketch-The-Dream Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2015  Hobbyist
I hate when people ask me to be there friend I don't know why I just do because true friends aren't made that way it takes time but after all that time it is worth it for making such a beautiful friendship
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Captain-Frenchy Featured By Owner May 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Asking for friends is useless..
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EeveeDash9 Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
So true.
I'm using it now huehue
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ShyGigyas Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2015  Student General Artist
Thank you thank you thank you! You have no idea how much it bothers me when people who I barely even know say "Aren't I your friend?" when really they don't even care about you or acknowledge you like, EVER. Neither can you ask someone to be friends with you, sometimes you'll make friends in the unlikeliest of places.
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ChaoticDarkAngel Featured By Owner Edited Feb 14, 2015   Writer
I have to say that I agree with this ^^; Now I don't mind if people send me friend requests but I have to really, really get to know the person before accepting them since I've befriended complete jerks or very rude people before .__. Friends at first sight doesn't always happen. Maybe to some it does, but certainly not everyone has that experience.
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Foxraider101 Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2015  Student Writer
It should be "Subconsciously". You can't make friends whilst unconscious.
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:iconmysty-cuddles:
Mysty-Cuddles Featured By Owner Aug 21, 2015  Student Artist
yeah haha that's what i was thinking; it's still a good stamp though! n v n
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CherubFeet Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
One of the most obnoxious things is when people ask to be your friend
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sugilita Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
Using.
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Taiyakilover Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2014  Student
Using :meow:
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QueenCelina33 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
True, I really don't like it when people ask to be my friend because I don't know them. I make friends without even knowing it. This is an awesome stamp :thumbsup:
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JinZhan Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2014
Thank youPart Sara Sticker 01 by JinZhan
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QueenCelina33 Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
No problem :D
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Aka-DenSuFreak Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It makes me uncomfortable when someone just says "Let's be friends" because I don't like to be around people but if you talk to me more then I'll open up more. Even online if I'm asked that I'll be uncomfortable with that.
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Cyraina Featured By Owner May 20, 2014  Student Digital Artist
I used to ask this to people. Then I grew up once I realized that even I get annoyed when people ask me. XD
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ImmaEmmaKitteh Featured By Owner Apr 12, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you for this
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Miss-Gravillian1992 Featured By Owner Jan 15, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
that's so true!~
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Kuraiyuri Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
This is true! :3 I'm a really shy kid and when I meet someone who is like me, (for example, I love Minecraft and drawing) I sort of get a little excited, because I don't really talk, and we usually go on talking about whatever. Though...If it's a guy, I kind of freak out and stay quiet...^^; I'm REALLY boy-shy...
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Aka-DenSuFreak Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm like that too, I get very shy talking to boys.
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Kuraiyuri Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's sometimes frustrating for me. I can't act like a normal person around guys, and it makes it even more uncomfortable for me and the guy.
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Aka-DenSuFreak Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know how you feel. Except guys find it funny how I stutter around them
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Kuraiyuri Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No one really notices it, except maybe one guy, and he keeps teasing me about the fact I can't make eye contact with wanting to scream and hide.
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Aka-DenSuFreak Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I hate it when they tease because it really puts you in a uncomfortable situation
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vanillaanais723 Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
i think this is true. I never asked someone to be my friend or someone to ask me to be friends. I just simply comment his/her works then we make some long chain message (with lottenya and others) or i join the chats. I might say we are friends but not the close one type yet or besties. (Id say i talk with king and fridge a lot and bee-bee too)
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MantaTheMisukitty Featured By Owner Dec 17, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Unless you're, like, 7 :lol:
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SpiderwebWisher Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Actually, the way I made my first best friend was that, we hung out a lot and understood each other and accepted each other, so when I went over to her house, I got a paper and a crayon and wrote, "DO YOU WANT TO BE MY BEST FRIEND?" and I drew a box that said yes and a box that said no. I passed it to her and looked away, then she passed it back to me, and it said, "YES."
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TerminusPrime-TF Featured By Owner Oct 27, 2013
A great Stamp to wich i agree 100% :iconclapplz:
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Nappah Featured By Owner Oct 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:iconclapplz:
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What-if-Writer Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2013
I used to cringe when I heard people ask 'do you want to be my friend' even if it wasn't directed at me...
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